i had a medical abortion when i was 9 weeks and 1 day pregnant. i was a single mother of two children already and in an unstable relationship. when we found out i was pregnant, he became even more distant and still. i knew i wouldn\u2019t be able to fairly raise another child on my own without having a traumatic effect on my other children. the father was persistent on me going through with it because he believed it was the best option. he came with me to the clinic but i was alone afterwards and for the following day. i was in disbelief that at no point did he stop and question anything. i was so unbelievably hesitant and i felt that if he was there and received all of the information i did, he would want to reconsider this. he never did. i felt so guilty, ashamed, alone and filled with sadness. it was one of the most traumatic things i\u2019ve endured in a long time but it was even harder trying to mourn when i didn\u2019t even feel like i deserved that right. the next day, i cut ties completely and am still working on healing myself. if there was more support for pregnant and single parents, i wouldn\u2019t have done it. yet, i am grateful to live in a place where this is an option and i can make the decision to have this procedure safely. it is still too soon to tell if i regret it or not.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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