i have had two abortions and don’t regret either one. the first time was when i was 19. i was working and going to school part time. i had unprotected sex one time in mid december with a guy i went to high school with. i didn’t think about it again until one day in late february. my breasts hurt with every step i took. i thought that it meant my period was a day away, except my breasts hurt much more than they ever had before. i realized i had skipped my period in late december and january and hadn’t yet had my period in february. my periods were normally very regular, every 27 days. the next morning i went to a clinic that offered free pregnancy tests. almost im世界杯2022亚洲预选赛b组 tely the test showed what i already knew. the next week i had a friend drive me to the abortion clinic. the staff was kind and professional. i was asleep and i remember nothing from the procedure until i woke up in a room with 4-6 other girls, each with a sanitary napkin between our legs. i had mild bleeding for about 4 days and i don’t remember any cramping.<\/p>\n
the next time was eight years later when i was married. we had a rocky and abusive relationship. sometimes he would shove me against a wall and then punch his fist through the wall inches from my head. everything was always my fault and we ended up not agreeing on many subjects. one day i became nauseous after making his morning coffee. later that evening i noticed how painful my breasts were. i knew my period was due the next day. i went to the store late that night and bought a test after he went to bed. my husband was thrilled when i told him and we got along pretty well for a few weeks. then his usual self showed up and, among other things, our ideas of how we would raise the child differed greatly. he saw nothing wrong with using a belt or a whip to punish children. i knew the child would never be safe around him and i couldn’t stay with him any longer. also my nausea and vomiting were constant. i wasn’t able to work. a friend helped me to the clinic where this time i was awake for the entire procedure. there was some mild discomfort when my cervix was given an injection and then the dilation rods were inserted. after that i felt nothing and again and my uterus was emptied. i again had mild bleeding for about 4 days after. still no regrets.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
i have had two abortions and don’t regret either one. the first time was when i was 19.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_世界杯2022亚洲预选赛b组 ":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[296],"tags":[398],"class_list":["post-19675","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-abortion-stories","tag-abusive-realtionship"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"\/\/www.k12fl.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19675"}],"collection":[{"href":"\/\/www.k12fl.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"\/\/www.k12fl.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"\/\/www.k12fl.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"\/\/www.k12fl.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19675"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"\/\/www.k12fl.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19675\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"\/\/www.k12fl.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/世界杯2022亚洲预选赛b组 ?parent=19675"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"\/\/www.k12fl.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19675"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"\/\/www.k12fl.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19675"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}