a year ago i found out i was pregnant. one month before i found out i had surgery and prior to going under anesthesia i took a test which came back negative. with no sexual relations between my surgery and when i took the second test, i was very surprised to find out i was pregnant. without any hesitation i called the local clinic and made an appointment for three days later to take the abortion pill. i couldn’t afford the procedure. i had to not only receive finical aid but also borrow the balance to have the procedure done. after having an ultrasound i found out i was 9 weeks along, could not take the pill safely, and had to have the procedure done the following week.<\/p>\n
the following week we went to the clinic with my sister, had the procedure done, no regrets. two weeks later i told the father. he was upset that i had not consulted him and started talking about how we could have gotten a house together, been married and started a family. all reasons why i did not consult him, i needed the decision to be mine and not clouded with promises of a life together. i never wanted to feel as if i “trapped” someone into being with me.<\/p>\n
so many factors played into my decision, including the child involved. during my pregnancy i had to be put under for surgery and it was the holidays so i had more wine and cocktails than usual, both factors that could have affected my child’s quality of life. a gamble i didn’t want to take. i had a choice and it was mine. not telling the father is the only regret i have. i wish we had discussed the situation and made the decision together, but in the end i don’t regret having an abortion.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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