i was 25 years old i told the guy i was pregnant. but he did not talk to me about what he wanted to do about it. there never was any talk. he went away for three months. came back after i had the abortion. asked if i wanted to try again. i stared at him and said no. he wasn’t there for the first time. i was sad at the abortion. and fearful of getting pregnant again. i never had kids. i am 63 years old. and am alone. with a cat. that is 12 years old. i was raised baptist. tryed being lesbian, seemed forced to be bisexuality. but have stayed out of relationships. since 2003.