i think i am like many thousands of women who have had abortion and it was a normal part of their life. there are many of us who are just not going to have big dramatic stories.

and that is how it should be.

i have known at least two other women in my life who had hard decision to make. one chose to have an abortion and the other gave her second child up for adoption. each woman had a story and had a reason for their decisions and they did the right thing in both.

harriet's abortion story.

angela's abortion story.

my husband and i had decided not to have children. and then while taking some medication for a gynecological problem and while thinking i couldn't get pregnant, we had unprotected sex and i did. the medication was contraindicated for pregnant women as it was known to cause birth defects. for the two above reasons i decided to terminate the pregnancy.

my husband brought me to a hospital and a d&c was performed. i did not even know i was pregnant at the time. under the new anti-abortion scenario proposed by some political groups, would that d&c have been unlawful? would i have been left to bleed to death rather than remove the remains of a fetus that was most likely already dead?