i never regretted my decision to have an abortion. but i regret the amount of fear i felt because of other people's reactions and how that fear caused me to make other decisions i wish i hadn't made.

i have had three abortions. considering that i became sexually active at age 15 and knew then that i never wanted to give birth, and i am now 44, i think three is a pretty small number.

my husband and i decided to have an abortion early in our marriage. we still prefer to remain childless. the pressure to explain our choice to not have children is itself bad enough; the current cultural taboo of admitting an abortion is strangling.

i felt alone for years, until a friend i met in 2010 revealed she, too, had an abortion. now i'm not alone.

i was sure on my decision. i don't regret it. i just wish people would accept me, and not hate me.

i was a 23-year-old alcoholic and drug addict. by god's grace, i went into rehab and got sober in april of '92. i got pregnant the first week out of treatment.