my boyfriend and i had been using the pull-out method for almost a year since i went off the pill because of side effects. i figured if i got pregnant we were already talking about marriage and it would just be a little out of order. no big deal right? wrong. i was so very wrong.

i had always considered myself to be cautious, when it came to protected sex and birth control, and to be honest i never thought i would experience an unwanted pregnancy.

i have had two abortions and i experienced each one in tremendously different ways.

it was last november that i found out i am pregnant. here in my country its a taboo to get pregnant before marriage even having sex is forbbiden for unmarried girl or boy.

thank you, for life

“you saved my life,” i had told the provider.

i was 18, in my freshman year of college and having sex with my high school sweetheart. in late september i thought i had the flu. i never really thought about the possibility of being pregnant until one of my girlfriends saw me vomiting at school one day.