i am 25 and i and i had two abortions. my first abortion was when i was 17. i found out i was pregnant weeks after graduating high school and the father was expecting with another girl. now we were high school sweethearts but i was naive, i didn’t know about his drug use or other girls and that was an eye opening experience. and so i decided that it was not the time or lifestyle i wanted to bring a child into the world. and it was the most grown up thing i had ever have to do and i went into a deep depression over this because i thought of myself as a monster but as i look back i knew it was the right thing to do. and at 22 i had my second abortion now this one was due to faulty birth control and i just had a baby and i knew at that time i did not want to extend my family.