i was 24, in physical shape, stable career, mentally strong enough to do it alone. there’s a huge difference between having a baby because you can and because you want to. and i didn’t want to. not right now.

the emotion i felt most often before, during, and after my abortion was gratitude. i was grateful beforehand for the supportive friends and campaigns like this one that helped me have peace with my decision. i was grateful for the caring and professional staff that performed my procedure and took care of me. and i’m mostly grateful afterwards that i had a choice in the entire experience.