i was with my now husband, then boyfriend. i went back and forth between a diaphragm and spermicide. i was very faithful about using birth control.still, i wound up pregnant. i probably would have continued the pregnancy, if i thought my boyfriend would be ok with it. but, at the time, he was not ready to be a husband, let alone a father. he did not offer his opinion, even when asked. so, at 9 weeks, i had an abortion. though i regret getting pregnant, i do not regret the abortion and never have. i believe i did the right thing for me at the time. we now have been married for 30 years, have 1 child and 2 grandchildren. thanks for giving us this opportunity.