i was only 18, sure everyone says wait til marriage but sex is fun and i thought he was the one… i was wrong. he was my high school sweetheart and i was so in love. everyone around me was already having sex and telling me how amazing it was. i wanted to see if it was really true. i had a few encounters with my boyfriend til sex had become something weekly or even daily. we did not use any precautions we thought that the “pull out” method was fine. i was so wrong. it was christmas my period had not came i started to panic. i did not know who to tell what to do. my boyfriend wasn’t someone of much words so i did not know how to tell him or if i should. after a few days i had a panic attack so i just told him. he panicked even more so it was worse. then we had a conversation about it got some pregnancy tests obviously they came out positive. then came the big question: what to do? although he was older than me he was so naive at the moment. i took the decision to abort the kid, it was only 5 weeks so it was the best moment. i was not able to take care of a child much less my boyfriend. if i have a kid i want to make sure i can give him the best life i possibly could. this is not a matter if it should be legal or not it a matter that every women should have a choice its there bodies and life. till now only my boyfriend and boy best friend know about this because its something nobody talks about and mostly people just make a big deal about something that it was my choice. most women don’t have a choice it a procedure that its very expensive and usually they just go with house procedures that are very dangerous. it not only should be legal it should be free.