i was 18 years old. i struggled with depression afterwards, and was tormented by the posts of pro-life and general public opinions. at age 20 i found out someone who went to my school had told a large portion of people i knew about it. i was upset and ashamed to find out that something so personal had become the subject of trivial gossip.
i avoided people at all costs for a while, until i opened up about it to my now fiance and friends. they were supportive and kind, and i learned that this decision was no one else’s but mine, no matter how many other opinions others had.

today, i found this website thanks to the hashtag #shoutyourabortion and after seeing the stories shared i not only stand by my choice but now know i am not alone.