i am now 29 married with a baby, but i had two abortions in college and i only regret that i wasn’t more careful.

both times it was my on-off-again boyfriend (we would date, break up, get back together over and over). the first time he drove me to the clinic and paid for half. the second time i was so angry with his attitude that i took his money and went to the clinic alone. it was an emotional struggle when i was younger but i now believe it was best for all (i was in no place to raise a baby; i could hardly take care of myself). i went and found an alternative to oral contraceptive after the second and stayed on it until my husband and i were ready for a baby.