i was 21 and a student. it was the first time i had ever had unprotected sex; i was usually so careful and i didn’t think once would be a problem.

i swear i just knew, even before i took the test or saw a doctor. i went to a clinic and got a number for a local doctor who performed abortions. when i called, they said they would not be able to treat me due to my latex allergy. i panicked because i had no idea what my other options were, and left a frantic teary voicemail at the hospital begging for help. they called me back a few days later with a time and place. my partner was very unsupportive so a friend drove me and helped me through. i never looked back or thought about it, and i didn’t tell anyone.
a year later, a friend confided in me about her unplanned pregnancy and i was so happy to be able to help her and share my story. it almost made it all worth it to see the relief on her face when i told her she wasn’t alone.