i was 21 when i had my abortion. i just started dating my boyfriend at that time for a few months, we had a rocky relationship due to my personal 世界杯赛程2022赛程表中国 with me and him with substance abuse 世界杯赛程2022赛程表中国 . i have always been paranoid about becoming pregnant after having sex with boyfriends and up till that point my paranoia was abated when i had my period, until the one time my fear came true.

i burst into tears when i saw the positive test, i could not believe that it could be true because we used a condom and though it broke we were quick about buying me a plan b pill. i remember calling my mom crying and telling her what happened and asking her what i should do. she told me she would support my decision to have an abortion. the next day i called planned parenthood and i felt fortunate that my insurance was able to pay for my abortion because i looked at the price for an abortion without insurance and it was expensive. though that boyfriend and i are no longer together, he was very supportive of me and went with me to the clinic and stayed with me when i took the second pill back at my apartment and i am forever grateful for that. to this day i do not regret the decision i made, i have seen the way my life has turned out and assessing my mental and financial situations, i would have not been able to care for a child and i am firm believer that a child deserve the best life possible. i still want a child one day when i find the right man and can be excited for my pregnancy and not sad and scared. i would like to say that as i said i have no regrets for my decision, however i sometimes think how old the child would have been and wonder what gender it would have been, but it comforts me to know that i am not alone in my decision and i encourage other women to share their stories.