i was not ready to be a parent. at the age of 21, i was still in school and still trying to figure everything out. i still am trying to figure things out. although sometimes i think about it, its hard to tell people about it.

till this day, only my sisters, boyfriend and a few close friends know my story. i wasn’t ready; emotionally, financially, physically. hopefully i will be in a few years i will be. i am content with my decision and although i wish i would have been more careful, i have learned and moved on from the situation.
my advise for women is to not be ashamed. it happens, but learn and continue learning.