i was on the patch, and my boyfriend and i used condoms, but i got pregnant anyway. because of my history of very irregular periods, we did not know that i was pregnant until i was 17 weeks along.

having access to safe, legal abortion services played a major role in both of our lives almost eight years ago, and it was one of the most difficult decisions i ever had to make for myself. but it was also one of the best decisions i’ve ever made; after my procedure was finished and i sat in the waiting room with several nurses and other women who had also just gotten done with their own procedures, i finally felt at peace. after two weeks of serious discussion with my boyfriend and many shed tears from both of us, i could literally feel a huge weight being lifted off my shoulders, and i cried my first happy tears about the whole situation.

being forced to carry a baby to term when my boyfriend and i did not have health insurance, full-time jobs, or a regular place to live would have been nearly impossible. my abortion allowed us both to finish school, get good jobs, and nurture our relationship. now, we’re ready for a family, and we couldn’t be more excited to start one together – but eight years ago was not the right time for us.