04.01.2009
世界杯2022亚洲预选赛b组
definitions of road blocks to effective communication
parent-child communication basics: an education program to enhance parent-child communication
verbal |
examples |
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| s-1. judging | making a judgment | you should …
you ought to … |
| s-2. rejecting | giving no support | it’s your problem, not mine. |
| s-3. blaming/criticizing | placing fault on the other person | it’s your fault. |
| s-4. labeling | calling names or words that are negative | only a dummy would do it that way. |
| s-5. transferring | not listening and jumping in with one’s own problems | let me tell you what happened to me. |
| s-6. ordering | giving solutions with no choices | you must do this now. |
| s-7. threatening/bribing | using threats or bribes to try to make someone do something | if you don’t do what i want …
if you do what i want, i’ll do this for you. |
| s-8. waffling | not being clear and consistent in setting limits | well, maybe …
we’ll see … i’ll think about it … |
| s-9. nagging | persistently repeating orders or requests | i’ve told you a thousand times …
how many time do i have to ask you to … |
nonverbal |
examples |
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| s-10. acting | using body language that sends negative messages or that rebuffs; being physically abusive | crossing arms; not looking at speaker; walking away; tapping feet; shaking finger in face; hitting; kicking |